Who says

同一件事，view from 不同的人，反應可真不一．．．

She says, "You are jumping from one 火坑 to another 火坑."
He says, " I’m saying you can do whatever you want to do. HE's trying to strengthen you."

Bible says - 你們哪一個能用思慮使壽數多加一刻呢？ (Matthew 6: 27)

Yup! Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. I'm moving on~ theysee inadequacy; HE sees capability. I'm beloved.